felicula: A dark image of a week-old tabby kitten sitting in the palm of my hand. (calm felicula)
( Nov. 14th, 2009 11:57 am)


OK, naamah_darling has me laughing this morning. NSFW.
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felicula: A dark image of a week-old tabby kitten sitting in the palm of my hand. (calm felicula)
( Nov. 11th, 2009 09:11 pm)


genderlol )
felicula: A dark image of a week-old tabby kitten sitting in the palm of my hand. (calm felicula)
( Nov. 10th, 2009 07:49 pm)


Here's to getting my own broadband and learning how to set up a wireless router. Posting from my bed's going to be a novelty for me for awhile. I wonder how long it'll take for the shiny to wear off...
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*dusts off this thing a bit*

A whole lot of life has happened. )
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felicula: A dark image of a week-old tabby kitten sitting in the palm of my hand. (calm felicula)
( Aug. 16th, 2009 08:28 am)


Boas, Wings of women wearing codpieces.

Brought to you by the entertaining Translation Party, the phrase, "Medium sized codpieces belong on women wearing feather boas," and [livejournal.com profile] siegeengine.
felicula: A dark image of a week-old tabby kitten sitting in the palm of my hand. (calm felicula)
( Aug. 10th, 2009 02:48 pm)


I've been quiet on here lately, spending more time in the immediate present. Things have been percolating for quite some time now that I've been hesitant to talk about in any public way until such time as I was ready to tell the parents. Well, when the parents were about to head home from Aidan's birthday party, it was time to tell them.

John and I have decided to separate.

Aidan knows. We keep him in the loop and include him in decision-making. We are taking his feelings, wants, and fears into account. It will be a process. My job starts the 24th, which will start me saving up money to move out on my own. Aidan is staying with John. No one is siccing high-powered lawyers at one another. At most we hope to utilize the services of a mediator. I admit to moments where I feel a sense of loss. Overwhelmingly, it feels like the right thing to do.
felicula: A dark image of a week-old tabby kitten sitting in the palm of my hand. (calm felicula)
( Aug. 1st, 2009 10:35 am)


Happy Lughnasadh everyone!
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felicula: A dark image of a week-old tabby kitten sitting in the palm of my hand. (calm felicula)
( Jul. 28th, 2009 03:51 pm)


I consider myself a "Grimm."
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( Jul. 25th, 2009 10:53 am)


An excellent post about rape.
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felicula: A dark image of a week-old tabby kitten sitting in the palm of my hand. (calm felicula)
( Jul. 19th, 2009 12:08 am)


BTW, I'd been out of town and did not check DW or LJ in the past week. If there's anything in particular you think I ought to see, point me thuswards? Thank you.
felicula: A dark image of a week-old tabby kitten sitting in the palm of my hand. (calm felicula)
( Jul. 18th, 2009 10:32 pm)


I wish an excellent Pride Weekend to all the Rochester folks. Anyone else going to the picnic tomorrow?
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felicula: A dark image of a week-old tabby kitten sitting in the palm of my hand. (calm felicula)
( Jul. 10th, 2009 08:11 am)


Happiness is IDing her first northern flicker after watching it land on a house. Sadness is finding one smished in the road two days later.
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felicula: A dark image of a week-old tabby kitten sitting in the palm of my hand. (calm felicula)
( Jul. 9th, 2009 02:58 pm)


OK, so I'm going to accompany Aidan to Buffalo for his week at camp. My Mom's picking us up on Sunday (7/12) and bringing us back Friday (7/17) evening. I will not have access to a car of my own. I might have some free time to hang out, but in all likelihood I'd need a ride. What do you think?
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felicula: A dark image of a week-old tabby kitten sitting in the palm of my hand. (calm felicula)
( Jul. 3rd, 2009 05:03 am)


I struggle with body image issues. With that in mind, I find The Belly Project fascinating. There is such a range in bellies shown anonymously there: real women, not television clones or magazine paper dolls.
felicula: A dark image of a week-old tabby kitten sitting in the palm of my hand. (calm felicula)
( Jun. 26th, 2009 03:02 pm)


So, I'm back to square one with my relationships. Back to [livejournal.com profile] mechanchaos and I needing to figure out whether we're working on things together or separately. I'm hoping we'll truly take the time to work on things together this go-round. I do not think we're ready to dive back into trying to date others without some hefty repair/growth first. It's all too easy to use dating as an escape, and that's not fair to anyone involved. What emotional roller-coasters the past two weeks have been! *grimace* One day at a time, I guess.

[livejournal.com profile] rm posted a statement that resonates with me:

"Some days I struggle, and that just has to be okay."

I really needed to read that today. Hopefully I can keep that in mind when I face down more challenging days.
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felicula: A dark image of a week-old tabby kitten sitting in the palm of my hand. (calm felicula)
( Jun. 26th, 2009 11:04 am)


As I was peeking through all the various sentiments about Michael Jackson, one thing occurs to me. His narration of the E.T. vinyl-and-book set was the first time I wondered, "Is that a girl or a guy?" To this day I have a soft spot for androgyny. Not that I think I would have turned out differently had another individual been the one to set the gears in my head a-turning. Just sayin'
felicula: A dark image of a week-old tabby kitten sitting in the palm of my hand. (calm felicula)
( Jun. 20th, 2009 01:35 am)


I'm posting this because I cannot count the number of times I've gone to the movies only to be left wondering, "Where are all the women? Where are all the women's stories?" If any of you reading my page have the means to help this woman produce her movie, I urge you to lend a hand. At the very least, please take the time to read this in full. Our stories are out there. Our voices are here. Let's use them.
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felicula: A dark image of a week-old tabby kitten sitting in the palm of my hand. (calm felicula)
( Jun. 19th, 2009 04:12 pm)


I am Jack's broken heart.
felicula: A dark image of a week-old tabby kitten sitting in the palm of my hand. (calm felicula)
( Jun. 18th, 2009 02:50 pm)


With all the thoughts in my head about same-sex marriage, I found it helpful to read this. [livejournal.com profile] rn makes some excellent points about equality and life.
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