In my own beliefs, I don't think the term "soulmate" necessitates a singular individual. I believe that many people can be one another's soulmates. On the other hand, I also believe in the vows I made when I got married. On my nonexistent alien third hand I think poly could have potential.

Not sure what we'll end up doing, but we keep on talking. I try my best to reassure him that I'm not heading off anywhere with anyone. I think we need to examine all the options we can think of, perhaps some we haven't thought of, and try to find the best one out of 'em all.