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felicula ([personal profile] felicula) wrote2007-02-13 01:37 pm
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Who would have thought that exercise would give such a lift to my sex life?

I know that I have been developing greater strength and endurance. This goes beyond that. Exercising together can be sexy in its own way. It is like a shot of adrenaline into my relationship. Sharing a simple workout routine can be strangely intimate, even while clothes are still on. Then again, once they come off I get extra, uh... "strength training," and... er... uh... "yoga."

[identity profile] dawnstar.livejournal.com 2007-02-12 09:13 pm (UTC)(link)
I'm debating now if I want to try to aim further (somewhere between 130-135) or just be happy where I am. I'm relatively comfortable in my current calorie range, so I may just stay with it and see what happens. I definitely /don't/ want to get obsessive, nor do I want to feel like I'm "dieting." It's hard, when you've struggled with weight problems, not to obsess, even after you've reached your target. And if I feel like I'm "dieting" then I'm that much more prone to "cheating" (which may mean going on periodic binges and feeling terrible afterwards, or might just mean starting up bad habits, or whatever else).

I remember how good it felt to watch the pounds fall off (even though I wasn't /trying/ to lose weight as much as just changing dietary needs) a couple of years ago, and I miss that feeling... but losing weight just to get that feeling is stupid. There are other ways to feel good about myself.

*chuckles* I think I'm now obsessing about the idea of obsession. How neurotic is that? ;)

[identity profile] blackfelicula.livejournal.com 2007-02-12 09:32 pm (UTC)(link)
Whichever your choice is, I wish you well with it.

I can totally relate to the wonderful feeling of watching the pounds fall off. I used to dread what the numbers on the scale would tell me. Now, I can barely wait the week to see how things are going! (Since today is Monday, I am getting antsy waiting for tomorrow morning to come along...)

Nothing wrong about a little neurosis... :)

[identity profile] dawnstar.livejournal.com 2007-02-12 09:51 pm (UTC)(link)
*nods* I'm pretty laid back about weigh-ins, these days. I do them whenever I think about it, really. No more than once a week, but sometimes it's more like 10 days or 2 weeks between them. But around the holidays, i was experiencing that, "Oh god, don't wanna get on the scale!" feeling again. Thankfully I'm back in the area of comfortable again. As such, I'll probably stick with what SP is giving me for a while. If I keep going as I have been, those other few pounds might just come off anyway without me having to change anything. If I /tell/ SP I want to lose another 2-7 pounds, it'll take calories away from me, and then I'll feel like I'm "dieting," when really all I want to do is keep up the good habits.

[identity profile] blackfelicula.livejournal.com 2007-02-12 11:30 pm (UTC)(link)
Understandable.