I realize that it's a tricky spot to be in. I think I've mentioned that you won't really know how they'll react unless you let them in and see what their real reactions are. It's scary and uncertain. The imagination is capable of showing the things you are most afraid of, whether or not that is really how they would react.
It is my hope that you will take whatever time you need to figure yourself out. In the course of being Mom and Dad to Aidan, we've both lost sight somewhat of that which makes us ourselves. I hope you trust me with what you learn about yourself, and I hope I can give you the time and space you need to figure things out. I love you. I loved our conversations yesterday, and I think last night was enriched by it. :)
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Date: 2008-01-19 04:35 pm (UTC)It is my hope that you will take whatever time you need to figure yourself out. In the course of being Mom and Dad to Aidan, we've both lost sight somewhat of that which makes us ourselves. I hope you trust me with what you learn about yourself, and I hope I can give you the time and space you need to figure things out. I love you. I loved our conversations yesterday, and I think last night was enriched by it. :)