I was feeling similarly when I was married. I had a whole lot of hmmm and oh no and mostly didn't talk about it. It ended up being more like a craving than anything else and once I glutted myself on the girl lovin' and then took a look back at my sexuality a bit I found it remarkably like it had been before the crisis.
We often crave foods when our body is missing a certain nutrient and then once we have filled up on it our food preferences go back to normal, but I look on this more like nourishment for the heart, libido and soul.
In my case it wasn't so much that I was different, just that I needed something in addition to what I had to sustain me.
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Date: 2008-12-30 05:46 pm (UTC)We often crave foods when our body is missing a certain nutrient and then once we have filled up on it our food preferences go back to normal, but I look on this more like nourishment for the heart, libido and soul.
In my case it wasn't so much that I was different, just that I needed something in addition to what I had to sustain me.