Allow me to mention that I know (or know of) at least three women who identify as one thing, but married the opposite, just because that was what their soulmates happened to be. Two are lesbian, one is hetero. And yeah, there is apparently a lot of confusion and a lot of people around them going "wtf," but that's what felt right for them in the end.
If jealousy isn't an issue, I would definitely recommend exploring poly - have your cake and eat it too, so to speak.
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Date: 2008-12-30 04:09 pm (UTC)If jealousy isn't an issue, I would definitely recommend exploring poly - have your cake and eat it too, so to speak.