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[felicula]

I am having difficulty expressing this in a way that neither makes the situation sound worse or better than it is.

This week shook my relationship to the core.

I am in a strange, painful limbo. We are talking almost constantly: logically, rationally. We have agreed to work on things. We have also agreed that it would not make sense to rule out the possibility that we might not be good for one another. I do not know which direction it is going to go.

Ten years is a long time.

Comments

[dawnstar.livejournal.com]

I love you both, and will do everything I can to be here for both of you in whatever capacity I can and am needed. I don't know if my therapist does marital counseling in general (he saw O & I once together but that was for a specific situation, so I'm not sure in general), but I can find out and pass his number along if you like.

[blackfelicula.livejournal.com]

I think mechanchaos is interested in your therapist's info. We may end up looking into marital counseling, but I think it might be better to see someone separately for that if we're going to do both.

***hugs lots***

[dawnstar.livejournal.com]

*nods* Most therapists wouldn't be willing to see you both separately anyway. I wish you luck in sorting things out, and hope that in the end you both end up happy.

*more hugs and love*

[blackfelicula.livejournal.com]

I'm not certain what I meant came out right. My thought was that if we were going to see a marital counselor, it would be a different therapist than either of us were seeing singly. I'm still not sure that's coming out right. Ack.

***hugs and loves too***

[cheshire23.livejournal.com]

If you are interested in seeing someone together, our old therapist in Rochester was a Licensed Marriage and Family Therapist and I found out she's either back or never left. Her name's Tziporah Rosenberg and I'm not sure where her office is now but she's working through U of R Medical Center.

*hugs*

[blackfelicula.livejournal.com]

Thank you.

***hugs***